Hubby and I have already decided on no service of any kind. I know this reply is a little late, however as a funeral director and part owner of a funeral business in Australia I will tell you that you have done is the best thing you could have. (Also known as Direct Cremation or No Attendance Cremation) The cost of a no service or no attendance cremation is a fraction of a a full service cremation. Will keep a big insurance policy just for this occasion . I am going to be committing suicide in the near future. Let them know that you love them and be there for them (as they will come back you will see) but in the meantime, please I encourage you to live your life to the fullest. MARY DOYLE  July 22, 2017 at 4:54 pm Reply. To be fair, many of your questions come in through comments and it is just so tempting to answer immediately, rather than wait for a post. Janey Dowe  November 22, 2015 at 9:44 pm Reply. If they want to cremate me and split me up – that’s fine. Lawrence  August 4, 2020 at 2:07 pm Reply, I had a funeral for my mom I worked 2years as a pca and saved money to buy a car so I could see my son more and I have one older sister and one younger and both my older brother died and we had the wakes there too.But my mom got a settlement in 2018 and she got 19000$ and my sister amy the older one scammed her into giving the check to her and her wife kim and they stole 7500 from her that’s what she was missing when she wanted her money back and my younger sister is on drugs and stole my dead brothers wedding rings that cost alot and guess what I end up paying for the whole funeral and the director put the obituary in late so we told everyone it was on Thursday but he said since he messed up he would do another showing well no one showed up I think 1 person and he’s giving me a refund but my sisters didnt pay anything and my older sister works at home depot and I wanted to do donations she said no because before all this my id got stolen someone got into my debit card and savings account and I had to spend all the money I was saving for a car for my son and my sister amy said I would get the refund back from the homerfund well the director never got it and I’m out 4600 but he gave me a discount cause most of my family had wakes there alot and I think he should go after my sister and refund me my money for obituary and the 2000 that she said to us she put in for but nothing and I have to move out of her apartment with no money unemployment is a joke so idk what to do this is crazy, Rene perez  July 31, 2020 at 5:41 pm Reply. The kids and I dread it big time. Shame on them! This brings me back to what a funeral is – a funeral is a place to start your grieving with those who will be grieving with you in the weeks, months, and years to come. Angelalala  November 22, 2015 at 10:26 pm Reply. This only proves that I was right to not have a funeral. Frugal with finances - "No funeral services will be held as it was Gary's wish that his estate be used for others, rather than himself." So again, the service is not for the deceased it is for the living. You have your reasons, and the are valid, they are not heartless, they are not cruel, and they do not impact on anyone else no matter what anyone else says. don’t feel much, even the relief I expected, just yet. I like your thoughts….I have no money to offer….I’m just looking to get out of all the silliness…no matter what they will have to deal with their demons. I wish I was there to give you a hug. The traditional funeral service is still the most common type of funeral ceremony held in many parts of the country. I have be unwell for a long time. Take it from me people,be prepared and have a map to take you where you want to go on your next Journey. She would get out of control wanting to feel and give pain. Cool. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. Cshen  September 23, 2017 at 11:38 am Reply. I don’t want a viewing of my body !!!!! Sure there will always be those who want the traditional service with church/chapel services then a funeral cortege, (procession) to final resting place, but those types of services are becoming less frequent, and are also more expensive than the modern day options. Show love while they’re alive and you’ll never need to say it. nothing What is matter? I don’t want a funeral Sorry not Sorry. You walked away from us!! I said that I wouldn’t be part of a funeral as that isn’t what Dad wanted. everyone has there own way of expressing there feeling when they lost someone. Can urns be buried at a cemetery? I can’t imagine anyone else having to do this either. Mostly because he’s the kind of person who doesn’t have friends and doesn’t trust much. But do not feel ashamed or apprehensive for what you have done in your case. OK, made it through that. Seems more logical and way cheaper. I want to sort my affairs out very soon but like that what’s the point in a mass and funeral all that stuff when they don’t give a dame about me I don’t know what to do all advice would be appreciated, Debbie  September 11, 2019 at 10:22 pm Reply. There were never any falling outs, no harsh words, no issues at all. People do not “get over” losses such as yours, and nor should they in reality. He wanted me to arrange the funeral yet I am in an impossible situation and have absolutely no means to accomplish arranging any funeral. Show the person while they are alive. If they want my body for experiments or spare parts, they can take them, I’m not going to need them! I am leaving the decision to have a funeral to my children, my boyfriend, my sisters and my Mother. You are precious to him. If you love and care about us you share our life! Post a personal tribute with photos on Facebook and/or your blog. What you describe about thinking he will walk through the door is so common. My mother is 80. The means to an end or a purpose? If u want hit me up with a text swisner36@gmail.net I’ll send u my number. Don’t let the circumstances of your life dictate your value. Once upon a time, when they were alive, they loved us and we loved them back. The funeral director is contacted and transfers the deceased into their care. I always wanted to be happily married but it was never mend to be. Now that he is gone it is up to me and my two grown children to decide what to do. He is not going to be there, he’ll be dead. It’s insane to pop up at a funeral and you haven’t even talked to the person in 30 years talking bout, “I’ m sure gone miss Sally.” Get out of hear. Places to go, people to see. I wanted just to bury him by myself. You would deserve it too. I’m so confused but I don’t want to be uncomfortable either….. RIP to my dad, I’ll miss you. I’m terribly narcissistic and self centered. the funeral company who took my husband to the research place supplied a coffin costing 900euro before consulting me.
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